For the record...I want to put in writing what I want in a guy..are you ready for this?! I'm entirely serious so pay close attention..
I want a guy who thinks the sun rises and sets on me.
I want a guy who is consistent in what he feels for me. If he flip flops over what he feels..he's out. Truth is always consistent.
I want a guy who strives to be the model of a Christian man for me.
I want a guy who lets me be soft. Sometimes I need to just be vulnerable and have my heart on my sleeve.
I want a guy who lets me vent. He doesn't have to offer a big bunch of words at the end, just respond so that I know he was listening.
I want a guy that goes the extra mile. Surprising me cause I wanna surprise him!
I want a guy that just can't stand to be away from me. He has to be near, he has to be involved in my life.
I want a guy who is excited to be partners with me in ministry. We don't have to be the head leaders of a church or anything, but whatever God calls us to, and He will call us to something, He should be excited for that and excited to pursue that with me.
I want a guy who values prayer life. That should be his number one source of advice..hands down. No big decisions without running it through the One first.
I want a guy who reveres wisdom. He can't be snappy. I rely on wisdom and God to give me wisdom. I don't make a snap judgement or decision at the drop of a hat..so he can't either or it will DRIVE ME NUTS!
I want a guy I can feel right about at night. This requires some explaining. But when things are right, when I lay down, finish my prayer, and take one last big sigh before falling asleep..I will get a feeling of assurance. I will be able to feel that my life is as it should be. I want that with him too. This may take work..but I can't compromise on this.
I want a guy that is stylish and that will let me dress him up because he wants to wear what I want =0).
I want a guy that thinks my smile can turn night to day.
I want a guy who respects me, so much so that he is willing to tell me no when I'm at my most vulnerable state, even though he really wants to say yes.
I want a guy who can go without talking to me for a couple of days or weeks..or however long..and then finally talks to me and breaks down and confesses although he can restrain himself, he doesn't wanna even try.
I want a guy who comes up beside me and puts his arm around my waist so that he can hold me near to him, not to slide his hand down a notch to my butt so he can steal a feel.
I want a guy who tells me "belt it babey" when I'm singing like a dork in the car.
I want a guy who isn't ashamed of how he feels about me in front of his friends.
I want a guy who can look me straight in the eye, being completely silent while at the same time still telling me everything I need to know.
I want a guy I can trust.
I want a guy I can tell anything to and he's still just as proud of me as he was before he knew my dirt.
I want a guy who thinks I'm beautiful and cannot keep his hands off of me *in a good way* even when my hair is back in a braid or piled on top of my head in a mess, my eyeliner is all smushed, my concealer is all blotched off, and my stomach is bloated and making odd sounds lol.
I want a guy who wants to hear what I have to say and pays attention like nothing else matters.
I want a guy who can take my advice and use it.
I want a guy who is man enough to admitt he was wrong.
I want a guy who loves and respects my family and my puppies..and knows and accepts that kasey is my #1 little man and no one will ever come between us..even if he is less hairy.
I want a guy who thinks about what he says and how it will affect me before he says it.
I want a guy who believes the same about me about everything: family, God, abortion, the law, and just general right and wrong.
I want a guy who will stand up for me even if he'd rather me learn to stand up for myself.
I want a guy who knows my worth and realizes only God could have put me in his life, not luck.
I want a guy who loves Jesus just as much and in the same way I do, seeing humans in the right light..that no..we aren't perfect..we're just doing what we can and accepting every drop of Grace God gives us with awe and thankfulness.
I want a guy who always keeps at least one picture of me with him..in his wallet..in his car..on his phone..on his mirror..I don't care..it should be somewhere.
I want a guy that loves me unconditionally and sees how much I care for him and appreciates it.
And in return...this is what he can expect from me...
He can expect that I will never betray him or lie to him.
He can expect that my love won't fade for him..only grow.
He can expect that I will gladly take the truth..even if its hurtful any day and work with him (as long as its reasonable) on it.
He can expect that I will go out of my way to make him happy.
He can expect that I don't just care about us and God..I care about him and God alone just as much.
He can expect that I think of us as one..not a couple.
He can expect that I will scream just as loudly for his team at a baseball game as he does..assuming of course they are not the yankees.
He can expect me to answer my phone at 3am or at least text him back.
He can expect me to consider his family in the choosing process..and love his parents like he does..buddy up with his mom when we're married and spoil his parents with food on a regular basis.
He can expect me to look into his eyes and communicate only through that look that I love him and that he has nothing left to prove.
He can expect me to want children with him that look exactly like him and maybe even if we have a boy..name him after him.
He can expect me to wait on him hand and foot, do his laundry (when we're married), and clean up his crap..within reason.
He can expect me to dress up for him, do my hair up for him, and batt my eyelashes at him when I'm being cute.
He can expect me to know that if he'll do it once..he'll do it again..whether its hitting or whatever..and if its disrespectful to me..I'm gone with no chance for reconciliation.
He can expect me to shower him on Valentine's, Christmas, and his birthday.
He can expect cookies in his mailbox at least once every four months.
He can expect me to want his dreams..no matter how childish or ridiculous..to come true just as bad as he does.
He can expect me to want to know how his day was, and if it sucked, he can also expect a killer backrub.
He can expect that I will not be a dud physically and he better get ready once we're married..cause I'm ready.
He can expect the evil eye if he uses a bad word..even if it was an accident.
He can expect that I'm not perfect..never will be..but I will try.
He can expect my full attention and affection when we're together and even when we're apart.
He can expect that if he ever left me, I would come and find him and bring him back..because he'd be wrong.
He can expect me to not wanna let go when we're hugging.
He can expect me to do nothing sexual until we're married..even though I'm about to die of curiosity. lol
He can expect ridiculously cheesy ims, emails, and text messages.
He can expect me to be jealous once in a while if another girl is interested in him and I'm not around for it.
He can expect me to take care of his heart.
He can expect me to apologize..eventually.
And finally..he can expect that I don't hand out my heart, my touch, my emotions to just anyone..and even if he thinks he has everything figured out in his mind and its different from me..that God will bring him to me when the time is right..and until then..I will not waste one kiss, one hug, one look, or even one time on anyone else ..that they belong to him and him only.
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